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How do you take a custom video request as a domme?

Take the request in your DMs on BaddieVids and make the sub do the work of describing it. Ask three things: what he wants to see, how long it should be, and what name or words he wants used. Keep it in writing. A custom agreed by voice or across three apps is a custom that gets disputed.

Then repeat the brief back to him in one message, in your words, with the price and the delivery time. That message is the agreement. If he changes the brief after that, the price changes too. Dommes who skip this step end up filming twice for one payment.

Decide early what you will not film. A custom is still your content, under your rules. The dynamic is consensual power exchange between adults, and you are the one who decides what goes on camera. Refusing a brief is not bad service. It is the job.

• What he wants to see, in his own words
• Length, in minutes
• The name, words or scenario he wants used
• Your price and your delivery time, in one message

Should a sub pay before or after a custom video?

Before. Always. A sub who wants a custom from a domme and will not pay up front is not a buyer, he is a time-waster, and you are allowed to treat him as one. On BaddieVids the payment can arrive two ways: as a tip in the chat, which shows up as a tip card in the thread, or by you sending a pay-to-view message with the price set, which he unlocks to confirm the order.

The tip route suits a quick custom for a regular you already trust. The pay-to-view route suits a sub who wants to feel like he is ordering something. Either way, the money is in your balance before you press record, and the chat holds the proof of what was agreed and what was paid.

If he asks for a deposit and the rest later, say no once, politely, in character. Full payment first is the standard among dommes who get paid, and a sub who respects you will not argue.

How do you deliver a custom video on BaddieVids?

Deliver it as a pay-to-view message in the same chat. If he already paid by tip, set the price to zero or to a token amount so the video sits inside the thread where the agreement and the tip card are. If you chose the pay-to-view route for payment, the video is the unlock itself. Either way the sub never has to leave the site, and you never have to send a file anywhere you cannot see.

Send a short message with it. One line in your voice, telling him how to watch it, is worth more than the video to most subs, and it is the part he will screenshot. Do not over-explain and do not apologise for the delivery time if you met it.

Hit the time you promised. Customs are where reputations are made among subs who talk to each other, and a domme who delivers on the day she said becomes the domme they recommend.

How do you price a re-order of the same video with changes?

As a new custom. A sub who loved his video will often come back weeks later and ask for the same thing again with one difference: a new outfit, his real name said once at the end, a different room. He will usually ask whether it costs the same. The answer is that it is a new video, filmed again, so it is a new order with its own price, and the price is yours to set.

This is the moment many dommes lose money, because it feels generous to match the first price. Do not. He is not a stranger any more, he is a regular who knows exactly what he is getting, and that certainty is worth more to him than the first order was. Say it in character: the first price was for a stranger. Then name the new one.

Keep the brief from the first order so the re-order is quick to agree. Repeat it back with the changes marked, confirm the price, take payment, film. The whole exchange can be four messages.

• Same video, one change, weeks later: a new custom at a new price
• Reuse the first brief and mark what changed
• Payment first again, no exceptions for regulars

What should a domme refuse in a custom request?

Refuse anything outside your limits, anything that names or shows another real person, anything that is not clearly adult and consensual, and anything that would break the BaddieVids terms. Refuse it before payment, not after, so there is nothing to refund and nothing to argue about.

Refuse the sub who keeps moving the brief, the sub who wants it tonight for a discount, and the sub who sends his idea as a four-paragraph script he expects you to perform word for word. None of these are customers. The dynamic only works when both adults have agreed what is happening and both can stop.

A clean refusal protects your regulars too. They are paying for a domme who holds her line. The moment they see you bend it for someone else, your customs are worth less to everyone.

How do you turn one custom into repeat orders?

Make the next order the obvious next step. When you deliver, tell him what you would make for him next, in one line, and when he can order it. Put a reminder in your own notes and message him on that day. Subs rarely order twice on their own, and almost always order twice when told to.

Use what BaddieVids already shows you. Baddie Coach, the assistant built into your creator account, lists your top-spending fans and the ones who have gone quiet. Customs are the easiest thing to offer a quiet regular, because the brief already exists.

Keep the price moving upward over time, as your numbers justify it. A domme whose customs cost the same in month six as in month one is telling her subs she has not grown. Raise it when demand is there, say so plainly, and the right subs will stay.