Paidprivatelivesessions fordommes:howtheywork.

How does a private 1-on-1 live session work on BaddieVids?

You start it, not the sub. From the chat with him, you send a private live invite with the length and the price you have set. He sees it as a card in the thread, pays, and the session is booked. When you go live for him, it is a one-to-one room on the site. Nobody else can join.

Payment is taken before the session begins, so you are never running a live for a sub who then disappears. If the session is cancelled by either side, or the time passes without it starting, the fan is refunded to his wallet automatically and the chat records it. You do not have to chase anything or argue about anything.

The session is timed to the length he paid for. When the time is up, it ends. If he wants more, he books more, through another invite. That structure is what makes it a product rather than a favour.

• You send the invite from the chat, with length and price
• He pays first; the card shows in the thread
• One-to-one room on the site, timed to what he paid for
• Automatic refund if it is cancelled or never starts

When should a domme offer a private live session?

After he has paid you in chat, not before. A private live is the top of your ladder. The sub who gets invited is the one who has tipped in sessions, bought locked messages, and kept his rituals. Offering it to a stranger on day one undervalues it and wastes your time on someone who may not show.

Offer it when he asks for more than the chat can give. A sub who keeps asking you to say things in your voice, who wants to be watched while he obeys, who wants an hour that is only his, is telling you what to sell him. The invite is the answer.

Offer it as a reward, in character. He has earned the right to book one. Not everyone gets the invite, and the ones who do know it.

How do you price a private live session?

By length, in a small number of fixed tiers. A short session, a standard one, a long one. Set the price for each in advance and use the same tiers for everyone. Subs talk to each other, and a domme whose prices change per sub loses the thing that makes the price feel like hers.

The tiers should sit above what the same time in chat would earn you. He is buying your full attention and your presence, and that costs more than your words. If your chat sessions are busy and your private lives are quiet, the gap between the two prices is probably too wide; if private lives are busy and chat is quiet, it is too narrow.

Do not discount. A sub who asks for a cheaper session is a sub who has not earned one yet. Send him back to the chat to earn it. He will book at full price later, or he was never going to book at all.

What rules should a private session have?

The same rules as your chat sessions, agreed in the chat before the invite goes out: what he wants, what he does not want, what he can afford, your limits, and a stop phrase for either side. Write them in the thread so they sit above the invite card. A session with agreed limits is one that both adults relax into.

Add the practical rules. How he addresses you, whether his camera is on, whether he speaks or only listens, what happens if he is late. Late is simple: the time started when the session started, and the time does not stretch.

Keep your own boundaries hard. A live session is intimate by design, and a sub will test the edges of it because testing is part of the game. Say no the same way you say it in chat. If he crosses a line, end the session. Ending it is not a failure; it is the rule being real.

• Limits and stop phrase agreed in the chat first
• Camera, voice and address rules stated before you go live
• Time starts when the session starts
• A crossed line ends the session

How do public live streams feed private sessions?

Run public lives for your whole subscriber base, and treat them as the showroom. A public live is where new subs see how you hold a room, how you speak, how you react when someone tips. The ones who tip during a public live are the ones to invite into private afterwards.

Say so during the stream. Tell the room that private sessions exist, that they are by invitation, and what earns an invitation. A public live with twenty viewers that produces two private bookings has done its job. Nothing else you do reaches that many subs at once with your actual voice.

Follow up the same night. Message the subs who tipped during the public live, in character, and send the invite while the session is still in their heads. Tomorrow is too late for most of them.

How do dommes turn private sessions into regular bookings?

Book the next one at the end of this one. Before the time runs out, tell him when his next session is, and send the invite in the chat afterwards. A standing slot every fortnight is worth more than three one-offs, and it is easier to run because the rules are already agreed.

Keep notes on each regular: what he responds to, what he asked for, what you denied him last time. The session he remembers is the one where you remembered. Baddie Coach, the assistant inside your BaddieVids creator account, shows which subs spend the most and which have gone quiet, so you know who to re-invite when a slot opens.

Grow the ladder. Chat sessions lead to private lives, private lives lead to customs between them, customs lead to longer private lives. Each step is sold in the chat, paid in the chat, and recorded in the chat. That is the whole system.